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That makes sense, but isn’t necessarily always the way to go about it i don’t think. The site i work for withholds the first 20 seconds i believe, unless they take you to exclusive chat. BUT, i took a look at my comment page the other day and there’s like ten pages of great comments, a fat sum of them about how i’m ‘right to it in pvt’ and ‘always quick to get naked and play’. Keep in mind these guys are paying you what, 3-5 dollars a minute so they want to be treated like it. if a guy asks for a strip tease, give him a strip tease. if he asks for you to hop to it, get them panties off haha. Also, i feel like if you were stringing a guy along for the whole first two minutes of private you might lose a lot of fed up customers that way.
I guess to sum it up, it’s better to get naked for some freeloading perv at the very beginning of private and take the chance that he might not stay, than to drive away a customer who would’ve otherwise kept you in private if only you had given him something to keep you there over.
I’ve been a webcam model for six months now and have never felt better about myself in my life. One of my friends told me i was more sexual, but she didn’t mean it like i was perverted, she meant it like i was more confident and unafraid to say what i feel or make a pass at someone, haha. Make sure your friends aren’t just trying to make you feel bad because they don’t understand what being a camgirl really is, that you’re not a prostitute or a sex trafficker haha. Also take into consideration that maybe you are a little different. Like i said, i def got more confident, i hardly ever think of what strangers think of me, i feel more free, i have more money so i’m a lot less stressed out than i ever was.
This job could potentially change someone for the worse, too. Confidence and arrogance are two different animals. If that’s an issue make sure you aren’t walking around like king dick just because internet pervs wanna bang you lol. It could also be bad for your psyche if you yourself FEEL like you’re doing something wrong. I know a lot of girls who had to quit because they couldn’t handle the way the sexual nature of the job made them feel. They spent a lot of time being stressed out, nervous, guilty, and worried about other people finding out that they were camgirls.
Basically dude, if your friends are telling you you’re being an ass hole, you just might be acting like one; if they’re misunderstanding the new confident you, or the new uninhibited you, or whatever you want to call the girl who has no shame where shame isn’t due, tell them what’s up. good luck (:
from what I’ve learned, most websites will make their HD girls a higher priority, and an HD webcam is only 60-100 dollars anyway. it’s basically the only thing you NEED to be a camgirl besides a computer, i wouldn’t even start without investing in a good camera. keep guys in private longer if they can see your face, and your vag when you’re zoomed in.
i work 40 hours a week on cam, and generally take home between 700-1000 a week. the site i work for pays weekly instead of bi-weekly. i also lose a piece of my check to the studio i work for as a studio fee (which i could easily get rid of by working from home). But yeah, if you can stay online and have yourself a good setup (tv monitor, well lit room, HD webcam, etc) then you can totally make yourself some decent money. two grand seems kinda steep but i really only know what I’ve learned at the studio, and from the other girls here. good luck! it’s a great job to have if you’re nice and not too shy.
same here, sometimes i’ll have him sit in a chair behind me while i stand and we both talk to the ppl in the room. him sitting makes it easy for me to just like sit on his lap or bend over so he can slap my ass and stuff like that. also he’s a lot taller than i am so having him sit is ideal. either that or we’ll zoom the camera in and make out on the bed. i’ll have him lay down and i’ll lean over him doggystyle and kiss his body and stuff, kinda make it look like we don’t care that we’re on cam, we want it NOW hahaa. if we’re not doing that we just talk to the guys though.
One thing that almost always GETS them to private is telling them you were just in a private show and neither one of you got to cum and you’re both still SOOOO HORNY lol. we had a guy take us pvt for almost half an hour that way today. haaaappy camming (;
oh yeah, they go nuts if you wear a different color eyeshadow lol. i bleached my hair like three days ago and my guys have been going nuts over it. i have one customer who was NOT so happy though. one of those guys who like, NEEDS his cam girl. he even sent me a private message that simply said ‘what’s with the hair’ hahaa. but screw it, you can’t please everyone
I’m usually nice to them at first, and if they persist then i remind them that this is my job and i’m a person. haha, i usually ask them if they’d fix my toilet for free if they were a plumber for ‘five gold bb’. if they’re really being unreasonable or rude i’ll remind them that ‘this isn’t the food pantry, if you want to see you can pay me’. which usually makes the other guys in the room who do intend to pay, or at least aren’t being pricks laugh. I’ve def earned myself some favorites for being real to the jerks instead of just kicking them out.
I never have but be careful with sugar and your vag. if you have syrup/whipped cream on your fingers, or in your mouth and you put your toy in your mouth you can give yourself a yeast infection. and everybody knows that shit suckssss.
I always tell them I won’t put my toy in my ass but i’ll put a finger or two in there, which most of the time I really will do, but there’s a trick to it if you don’t really want to, you know. if you tuck your middle finger under, you can make it look 100% like you’re fingering your ass. nobody likes a faker but desperate times call for desperate measures, lmfao
I work in a studio and we have wall mounted TV monitors with the webcam mounted on top of the tv so you have full freedom to walk around the room (for the most part), you can stand up, dance, zoom it right in on the bed. Cam up high (at about 5′) is definitely the way to go.
If I have to yawn and i’m on my back, I just toss the my leg in the air and tuck my face behind it like it’s ecstasy or something XD and a SNEEZE is embarrassing? girl, I was online the other day and farted so loud I I couldn’t even play it off like it wasn’t a fart lmfaooo. like…ass in the air doggy style. just like..laugh it off yahurd?