September 14, 2012 at 5:33 am #3545AnonymousGuest
The only real con I can think of to this job is that, because we work as a couple, it kind of diminishes our off-camera sex life. Sometimes we need to take breaks to really enjoy each other again.September 15, 2012 at 3:08 am #4389AnonymousGuest
I’ve experienced this too, although I don’t perform with my honey. He gets jealous sometimes, which is of course a bummer and a realistic risk that we ladies take when we do this gig. My advice is to save something special for only him, make sure he knows he’s your king.September 17, 2012 at 6:45 am #4390AnonymousGuest
Good advice, YOLicious. Our men must always know they are special for us and that this is only a job for us women. They shouldn’t be jealous.September 24, 2012 at 11:36 pm #4391AnonymousGuest
That is good advice, many thanks. We definitely do things differently when it’s just us (obviously it’s real and more sincere). And sometimes it works in reverse and performing together gets us hot for each other 🙂October 4, 2012 at 9:46 am #4392AnonymousGuest
It’s kind of funny but our off screen sex life is fairly boring compared to what we do for work! Most of our non cam friends refuse to believe that, but I say the job is like going to the best restaurant every night. Sometimes you just don’t want a fancy dinner but some comfort food!October 4, 2012 at 3:15 pm #4393AnonymousGuest
Ha ha, I love that last post! That really hits the nail on the head, so to speak. I’m new to modeling but I’ve performed several times now and all of my friends suddenly think that I know some kind of sex secrets or something! I keep trying to tell them that all I’m doing is stripping, dancing, and a bit of role-playing, but they think that suddenly I’m in on some kind of secret I won’t share with them about great sex. They don’t believe me when I tell them that my husband and I still have the same old sex we’ve always had!!October 7, 2012 at 7:05 am #4394AnonymousGuest
To be honest, I barely have any “real sex” at all. The work I do exhausts me in such a way that I prefer to cuddle and just go to sleep in my hubby’s arms. He feels the same way.January 24, 2013 at 2:56 pm #4395AnonymousGuest
It’s indeed exhausting, working in the sex on cam business can be tiring. I sometimes am actually grateful I live alone, I can just go to bed without any expectations from anyone.February 9, 2013 at 5:52 pm #4396AnonymousGuest
I had this problem too, a while ago, but managed to work around it. I usually fake it on cam if I know I have a date later on. My significant other knows about my job and is OK with everything so I try my best to keep things real between us.April 12, 2013 at 9:04 am #4397AnonymousGuest
I don’t really see this as a con. You actually have more sex this way. You just don’t have any in private. Sometimes it heightens the excitement when you know that others are watching.May 5, 2013 at 11:01 am #4398Doll BabyMember
I started out with my ex-boyfriend, and being a webcam couple actually put an end to our “real” sex life. It’s like working any other job and then not going home and wanting to do the same work. Plus, it just feels weird to actually “want” to do it later.February 8, 2015 at 11:33 pm #4399camrich9Member
Yes ladies i can totally relate i satisfy my hubby very well when im not online.He is so jealous.it makes no since,i could see if i was rejecting him.it’s kind of taking a toll on our marrige.he doesn’t understand its only work for me.im a on call movie extra actress as well as a stay at home mom.its not right that he wants me to make a chocieJanuary 9, 2022 at 8:33 pm #8602AdelineKatolParticipant
Your husband must learn to trust you and your interests, so that there would be no such problems.January 18, 2022 at 11:59 am #8661JennyV2Participant
But it’s pretty hard to trust a person when they’re far away from you.
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