I agree with Pimms; I definitely think it’s better to play the game they want you to play and keep your personal life private. Take me and my husband for example – I’m white and he’s black so we have the interracial market cornered… until clients find out that we’re ACTUALLY married and not just two strangers being paid to appear together. It’s almost as if they think it’s okay for us to have sex, but not a relationship. I don’t understand it, but I know we keep clients a lot longer if they don’t know we’re married, so we just keep them in the dark about it now.